If you’re simply busy and need to focus, be sure to explain that to your sibling and make it clear you aren’t ignoring your sibling out of anger. If your sibling is doing something annoying, first ask your sibling to stop. If your sibling has done something seriously wrong to you, try to first resolve the conflict. If your sibling’s offense is frequent or especially damaging, long-term avoidance may be your best course of action.
For when you’re trying to concentrate, tell your sibling something like: “I really need to study for this test. Could you try being a little more quiet or move to a different room?” or “I’m sorry if I’ve been ignoring you lately. I have a major project coming up and need to focus. " For when your sibling is doing something annoying: “Clicking that pen constantly is bothering me. Could you please stop it?” For when a sibling has hurt you: “I don’t know if you realize this, but what you did was extremely hurtful. I need to know you understand that and won’t do it again. " When you remain calm and collected, you’ll keep the peace, and your sibling will be less likely to pick fights and argue with you.
If you need extra support, talk to your parents and explain your needs. For example, tell them that you would be better off without any interruptions so you can focus on your homework. They can set some ground rules with your sibling. Encourage your parents to help your sibling find other hobbies or activities so they’ll feel more engaged and be a lot less tempted to look for you when they need some entertainment. .
