However, sometimes her behavior may just reflect how comfortable she is in public. For example, if she’s way more emotionally available and affectionate when you’re hanging out alone it might just mean she’s shy around other people. Don’t be suspicious of that. Merely talking about other guys is not necessarily a bad sign. She may just have guys in her life who she’s close to. However, if she routinely talks about how attracted she is to another guy (not you), she may not be into you.
People sometimes like to keep their new love interests out of the spotlight in the event that you have no interest in them. However, once you’re dating and everything is exclusive, there is no reason she should be worried to discuss you with her friends.
For example, if she gets upset when you don’t buy her meals or presents constantly, you should consider what her motivations are. Consider whether she is willing to return favors. People in a healthy relationship should be willing to make small sacrifices to support the other person. This doesn’t necessarily mean spending money; it’s an even better sign if she is willing to change her plans (within reason) to support you at important times.
Both of you are allowed to make reasonable requests to the other. The alarm bells should ring when she demands you change plans for a trivial reason, or gets upset when you decline.
