If she’s more physical around you, then this means she’s probably more comfortable around you. And she’ll only have sex with you if she feels comfortable with you. See how she dances with you. Does she get closer to your body than ever? She may be trying to tell you something.
Just because a girl gives you oral sex does not mean that she’s ready to have sex with you. Some girls give oral sex way before they’re ready to have sex, while others aren’t comfortable giving oral sex until after sex – or they don’t give it at all. Every girl is different. If you kiss for hours and your girl doesn’t do anything more, she may either be waiting for you to make the next move, or she may really just not be ready to have sex. If she pushes you away every time you try to touch her breasts, take off her shirt, or touch her below the belt, then she is definitely not ready.
This doesn’t mean that she’s ready for sex, but it does make it more likely that she wants to be intimate.
Don’t show the condoms to her or creep her out, but have them at your disposal just in case she is ready. Nothing will ruin an intimate moment more than a trip to the drugstore.
If you’re just kissing on the couch and she doesn’t make any more moves, it may be too soon to ask.
Obviously, make sure your girl is sober when this decision is made. The worst thing you can do is pressure her into doing something she’ll regret later when you’re both under the influence.
If she says no, cool it for a while. Don’t ask her if she wants to have sex every time you give her a peck on the lips. That will get old fast. Never rush.
If she mentions sex while you’re alone together, then it’s even more likely that she wants to have sex with you. If she’s suddenly very curious about which of your friends are having sex and which aren’t, then she may be wondering when you two will have sex too.
If she gives you these compliments while you’re kissing or being intimate, then it’s even more likely that she may want to take the next step.
