If you don’t have class with him, or if your teacher doesn’t let you pick your seats, sit near him in the cafeteria or hang out with him during breaks. Say “hi” to him in the halls! The more he is around you, the more likely he is to eventually develop feelings. You’ll also be able to use body language to attract him, which will be explained later.

For example, you can plan to ask about certain topics, like a question about the homework assignment or make a comment about an upcoming project. Make sure you don’t sound too rehearsed. The more natural and casual you seem, the better. This can be avoided by not planning a script. Keep it casual. Rather than saying, “Hello. I remember you enjoy [TV show]. Did you watch the episode last night?" try “Oh hey, you watch [TV show] right? Did you catch last night’s episode?”

Ask something that doesn’t require a “yes” or “no” answer. For example, you could ask: “How do you feel about the project?” or “What do you plan on doing for the project. " Try not to feel too nervous or worry too much about what he thinks. It’ll make the chat go more smoothly.

If you don’t have any common interests, make some. For example, if he wore a band t-shirt to school, listen to their music and mention it in conversation. At the same time, don’t fake it. If you don’t like the band, don’t pretend you do. Consider looking up another band for the same genre, or even asking him for recommendations!

Don’t make a spectacle of yourself turning your body towards him. Keep it subtle and natural.

Fake smiles are pretty easy to spot, so make your smile look genuine and real by thinking of something funny or happy. You don’t need to smile 24/7 like a Barbie, but flashing an authentic smile whenever something makes you happy is a great idea.

For example, you can tap his shoulder if you need get his attention. If he’s passing a paper to you, graze his hand when you take it. Don’t be overly aggressive. The smallest physical contact can get a guy’s attention. [6] X Research source

Be sure to allow a 3 to 4-second delay before mirroring his action. You don’t want to literally mime him—that will look more strange than endearing.

Don’t worry if he rejects your invitation once. He could be shy or just busy. If he rejects 2 or more invitations, however, consider moving on.

Sit next to his friends in class and start a conversation. Don’t be pushy or fake about it, however. Compliment his female friends. If you like their backpack or outfit, mention it! Don’t let jealousy get in the way and did them. Go out of your way to make his friends see you as a friendly, warm person. . If you’re having a party, make sure you invite his friends and not just him.

Some signs that he might be into you include: initiating physical closeness, laughing at jokes or having inside jokes with you, gently teasing you, blushing around you, making an effort to be around you, and asking you questions about yourself. You don’t need to make this a serious, sit-down chat in which you pour out your heart. All you need to do is tell him what you think about him, or what makes you like being around him. Keep it casual. Do this when you’re able to talk to him alone. It’s okay if you’re with a group of people, just try to find a time to break apart and talk to him one-on-one. Say something like, “I have so much fun hanging out with you. I think you’re really funny and smart, and I like you as more than a friend. ”

While a rejection might hurt at first, it’ll save you time and hurt feelings in the future. It’ll allow you to move on; you won’t have to waste time and energy and on a boy who doesn’t return your feelings.